Successful and Unsuccessful Lovers of the Rich and Powerful in History

Successful and Unsuccessful Lovers of the Rich and Powerful in History

Natasha sheldon - November 1, 2019

Successful and Unsuccessful Lovers of the Rich and Powerful in History
Clara Petacci, Wikimedia Commons. Public Domain

2. Like Eva Braun, Clara Petacci died with her lover, Mussolini. However, she didn’t have a choice between life or death.

Clara Petacci first became Mussolini’s lover when she was 19 and Mussolini was 48. The pair separated for two years and reunited in 1936 when Clara became the dictator’s permanent mistress. Clara received private apartments, bodyguards and a chauffeur. Mussolini was no more faithful to her than he was to his wife, and other women visited him daily. But Clara was his closest confidant and “amore” — in death as well as life. Clara may have chosen to stay with Mussolini after his downfall in April 1945. However, she had little choice but to die with him as Italian partisans captured and shot the pair soon after. Clara’s body was then hung upside down on public display, next to her lover.

Successful and Unsuccessful Lovers of the Rich and Powerful in History
Valentina Istomina, Wikimedia Commons. Public Domain

1. Valentina Istomina survived as Stalin’s lover by staying quietly in the background.

Joesph Stalin was renowned for his cruelty to the Soviet people and his wives and children. However, there was one woman who was close to him who he spared his cruelty. For eighteen years, Valentina Istomina was Stalin’s housekeeper and his lover. The pleasant and agreeable “Valechka” navigated her life with Stalin by staying in the background. She cared for him in a quiet, unassuming way, never seeking to appear more than his employee — and keeping well out of politics. All of this could have been a simple survival technique. However, it seems Valechka did genuinely care for Stalin. When the dictator was on his deathbed, Valechka came to say goodbye. She placed her head on Stalin’s chest and remained there, wailing at the top of her voice.


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